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tips and tricks for triads

Sunday, March 14, 2010

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Lately I’ve spent a fair bit of time thinking about triads. How they work, what happens when they don’t, what the possible pitfalls are, how to avoid them. It seems as though the triad is one of the most talked-about and desired forms of poly, and yet there’s very little written specifically about triad dynamics. Cultural [...]

rewriting the end: poly, exes and creative conclusions

Saturday, February 20, 2010

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Just a couple of days ago, I got the news that the husband of a woman I know was killed in an accident. I’ve been having really mixed feelings about the whole thing because, well, he wasn’t a nice guy. In fact I didn’t much like him at all. Would I ever have wished him [...]

keeping an eye on the mainstream

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

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Okay, so I’ve been off the blogging for a month now, and I feel bad about that already, and now I feel doubly bad that my first post back is gonna be about the most mainstream of the mainstream entertainment out there. Yeah, I’m blogging about Avatar. For starters, yes, I paid to see the film. [...]

musings on mentorship

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

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Someone sent me the following question not long ago, and I asked for and received permission to post the question and my answer here… *** Hi Andrea, can i pick your brain? In the context of the queer leather community, what do you see as the role of a mentor? Is it primarily seen as someone who [...]

shame and shameless

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

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Two little items for you tonight… First, Capital Xtra just published a feature I wrote about queer shame – specifically, about the social mechanism of shame and how it plays out in queer lives. In addition to my own pontifications on the topic, I talked to San Francisco-based sex educator Charlie Glickman, who works as the [...]

please, no thank-you

Sunday, December 6, 2009

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About ten years ago, I hooked up with a guy I met at the gym. We spent a few months together and he was a fantastic lover. But after the first time we had sex, he did something that made me cringe: he said “thank you.” I know he had good intentions. Or at least, I [...]

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tips and tricks for triads

rewriting the end: poly, exes and creative conclusions

keeping an eye on the mainstream

musings on mentorship

shame and shameless

please, no thank-you

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